What I believe:

Many things that make our lives difficult right now change as if by themselves when we start to notice what is happening in the present moment, without us having to intervene. This may sound simple, but it is not. Our ‘knowledge’ of ourselves and the world, including some of the associated fears, often causes us to distrust our immediate perception. As a result, it rarely penetrates.

However, in my experience, both my own and that of others, immediate perception is very powerful and helpful. It kicks in the moment you allow the present to be as it is.
In conflicts, for example, a system of unconscious loyalties and functions emerges. In times of crisis, we experience the necessary farewell and the unknown new beginning that every crisis brings. In trauma, unseen pain and a concentrated, frozen life force emerge. It goes even further: the spiritual appears in the pragmatic, love in fear and the solution in the problem.

What I do

Conflicts, crises and illnesses can cause great suffering. However, it is precisely this stressful characteristic that also provides opportunities to transform inner distress into something positive and to discover one’s own strength, as strange as that may sound. In my opinion, the most promising approach is to focus entirely on the problem or symptom, entrusting oneself fully to it as it is in the present moment.
Since problems and symptoms are not particularly appealing, support at the right moment may be helpful. That is what I am here for: I provide you with an anchor in the present. When we meet, I follow my physical, emotional and rational impulses in the present moment. I encourage you to do the same. This creates a connection to the other side of your situation: the hidden flow of love within you and within your essential relationships. Together, this connection can guide us through the crisis and into a new phase of your life. This process is commonly referred to as a ‘solution’.

We allow ourselves to be touched by the situation and its phenomena, which is why this approach is also called phenomenology. This works best when you are completely still inside and desire nothing. This inner stillness is my own anchor. In this sense, my work has an ’empty centre’, or a spiritual horizon, if you will. I treat you and myself with respect, mindfulness, and empathy. Discretion towards everyone is part of this approach. This work is also my way of learning about and finding myself. I do it with love.

Why?

I am touched by how people move through their lives and what moves them. Their issues are often my issues, too. I accompany them a few steps on their journey to discovering themselves and, in doing so, opening up. I see how they relax, and how they simultaneously gain strength and effectiveness. I find that fulfilling.

I feel the same way about working with groups of people, such as institutions, companies or teams. This is how I became a pastoral counsellor and, later, a recognised teaching therapist for systemic constellations (DGfS), as well as a consultant in private practice. As a lecturer at various pastoral care institutes and in my diverse work with pastoral carers, I remain connected to my spiritual roots.

Furthermore, I enjoy exploring the art of supporting people alongside others. Together, we consider what helps and what doesn’t, pay attention to solid craftsmanship, and share experiences. I am fascinated by knowledge. This has led me to explore craftsmanship, theology, phenomenological constellation work and writing.

I have the honour of working with esteemed colleagues and institutes. Together, we share the joy of this work and develop it further. In this way, we are part of a movement that is greater than ourselves. Take a look at my network page.