Constellations use representatives to reveal the inner connections of a problem, symptom or crisis. They also show the direction in which a solution can be found. Here I describe in practical terms how the work usually proceeds in a constellation seminar.
You follow your own inner steps at your own pace. I provide the safe space for this and serve as a guide with my professional resources and experience whenever necessary. It is a process between adults on equal footing.
I don’t believe in entanglements with our past as an active part of. The past itself can not do anything, and nothing can be done to it. It is over, that’s all. As well: nothing can be done to the future, and the future itself does nothing. It is not here, not yet. The only moment you can do something, and the only moment something can be done to you, is now. Your life is nowhere except in the present moment, and this is the only moment a constellation can be a mirror for. Read more …
Constellations reveal the present state of a person or their relationship system and the past attachments that are currently active. This is where their accuracy lives. They do not reveal the past itself, although it often seems to.
The Life Integration Process (LIP according to Nelles) is completely focused on the here and now. It is no longer about solving problems, but about completing the external process of adulthood that comes with age internally (emotionally) and truly accepting the inner freedom that comes with it. It has a deep and lasting effect, bringing resolution and strength.
Systemic constellations bring to light unconscious connections and loyalties that influence our conflicts, crises and illnesses. When we look at this unconscious reality with an open heart, deep inner healing processes can begin. By accepting what is, we gain access to both old pain and our own sources of strength. And we do this with love, without wanting to change anything or take anything away.
