Counseling is a process between adults on equal footing. The responsibility for one’s own path remains entirely with those seeking advice; it is not taken away from them. This allows them to discover what steps they are ready to take toward the future.
In a relationship we either learn over the years to see ourselves and others through adult eyes, or we suffer. The suffering comes from unconscious childhood demands. These cannot be fulfilled by anyone. The point is to transform them into adult needs. Then a whole new world opens up.
You follow your own inner steps at your own pace. I provide the safe space for this and serve as a guide with my professional resources and experience whenever necessary. It is a process between adults on equal footing.
Not only do we have a soul, but the soul also has us, in connection with all that is. It shapes us and our lives and seems to want us to become whole within ourselves.
This is about the work a problem does for us if we let it. A new approach to „problem and solution“.
1. You did not choose to enter into your relationship. You will not decide when it ends. 2. If you are suffering in your relationship, it is because of you. Your partner is suffering in the same way, only with himself. 3. …
The Life Integration Process (LIP according to Nelles) is completely focused on the here and now. It is no longer about solving problems, but about completing the external process of adulthood that comes with age internally (emotionally) and truly accepting the inner freedom that comes with it. It has a deep and lasting effect, bringing resolution and strength.
Supervision constellations are a great way to quickly get a clear picture of your role in specific professional challenges and what you might need to change to be more relaxed and effective.
Trance is a special form of awareness. It is less outward and more inward. It is less goal-oriented or associated with tension and action, and more with introspection, relaxation and a more undefined focus. This brings inner states, images and deeper levels of consciousness into view.
In bodywork we use mindfulness and body awareness to allow the body to tell its stories and, above all, to let them be told to the end. This gives even severe traumas the opportunity to dissolve gently. They can be transformed from a paralysing state of shock into what they really are: memories of something threatening that belongs to us but no longer affects us.
